We are about to tell you all about the best swingers clubs in the United Kingdom plus other ways to meet wife swapping couples in your area. We are also going to include some clubs in Ireland that may not technically be in the UK, we hope you won’t judge us too harshly for that.
Privacy is one of the most important things in the adult lifestyle, many know that United Kingdom swingers clubs prefer to keep things on the down low for obvious reasons. We are trying to give you the most up to date information on all of the libertine clubs in the country while respecting the privacy of all involved.
Table of Contents
- Best Swingers Clubs In The United Kingdom
- Ess & Emm
- Swingers Club In Nottingham
- Penthouse Playrooms in Luton
- Liberty Elite
- Vanilla Alternative
- Killing Kittens
- Passion Elite
- Hedonism
- Bizarre Events
- Shushi Parties
- Ireland Swingers Clubs
- The Love Nest
- I Kandi
- Meet Swinging Couples Near You Online
- Final Thoughts & Tips
We will begin by discussing the best sex clubs before sharing a brief write up on what participating in an orgy at one may be like. Then we will get into trying to meet swingers online which will be easier in big cities like Birmingham, Manchester, Newcastle, Sheffield, Liverpool and Leeds but you can find them all over this region of the world.
We went ahead and made separate posts on local swingers clubs in London and Scotland because if we included them here this post would be far too long. Follow those links for all the info you need on orgies in those areas of the UK.
Best Swingers Clubs In The United Kingdom
The best swingers clubs in the United Kingdom plus other group sex events near you would be:
- Ess & Emm is located in South Warwickshire
- Purple Mamba Club in Nottingham
- Penthouse Playrooms in Luton
- Liberty Elite near Lutterworth
- Vanilla Alternative in Tempsford
- Killing Kittens
- Passion Elite
- Hedonism Parties
- Bizzare Events
- Shushi Parties
- The Love Nest in Dublin
- I Kandi at Unit 1, Eastway Business Park, Crossagalla in Limerick
Remember that was a list, not a ranking, so it wasn’t in any particular order. We tried to list the on-site swingers clubs in your area at the top and the roaming group sex parties at the bottom.
We have also covered the libertine lifestyle in nearby countries like:
Now we want to do a little write up on each venue, be sure to check out their websites or social media so you can visit the right sex club on the right night for your personal desires.
Ess & Emm
While not exactly a local swingers club per se, Ess & Emm located in South Warwickshire is sort of like a bed and breakfast mixed with a group sex club. You can pay overnight or by the hour, and the longer you stay the cheaper your hourly rate gets.
Ess & Emm can be a great place to find BDSM group sex in the United Kingdom if you show up at the right time. You can email [email protected] or call +44(0)7771 898776 for more info.
Swingers Club In Nottingham
The Midland’s premier libertine club for swingers, kinksters and liberated adults is Purple Mamba. Strictly members only, with a wide range of events, workshops and parties, including live music.
This Trent Bridge, Nottingham Purple Mountain swingers club is located in a world-famous destination. Please see their website for membership criteria and events.
Penthouse Playrooms in Luton
If you are looking for a sexy fetish and LGBTQ+ club you can visit Penthouse Playrooms in Luton which recently opened in July of 2021. You need to sign up to be a member and then you can head over to enjoy their various playrooms, dungeon, cages, hot tubs, and more.
Email them at [email protected] if you have any questions.
Liberty Elite
UK swingers have been enjoying local sex parties at Liberty Elite since 1999. Like most they are a members only club so you will need to sign up before you can visit any of their kinky themed party nights.
Expect to find a hot tub, dungeon, and lots of play space. Memberships for couples will run you 45 euros a year while single ladies can get one for 15 and single men 40, but single men are only allowed on Friday evenings. There are also costs to visit each party, but those will vary.
They generally throw swingers parties in your area every Friday and Saturday, and then on the occasional Sunday and weekday. You can reach them at [email protected] if you have any other questions.
Vanilla Alternative
Like most others this lifestyle club is private and requires a membership. Vanilla Alternative actually has thousands of followers on their Instagram so you at least know others are showing up and enjoying the parties.
They have special couples only areas, a hot tub room, BDSM equipment, and a UV playroom. If you want to get a touch reach out to them at [email protected] or call 01767 640801.
Killing Kittens
Now we are on to the roaming sex parties, as you can tell there are not that many on-site swingers clubs in the UK to choose from, at least outside of London, but luckily the party scene is good. Killing Kittens has been throwing some of the kinkiest parties in the world since 2005.
They throw events in cities all over the UK like:
- London
- Dublin
- Manchester
- Birmingham
- Scotland
- Sheffield
- Newcastle
- Leeds
- Liverpool
Some of the themes for their sex parties include:
- Hedonism
- Tantric Sex
- Erotic Massage
- Japanese Rope Bondage
And many more. From BDSM to spirituality you can find it all here. Follow the Killing Kittens UK sex parties on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter plus you can email them at [email protected] for more info.
Passion Elite
Passion Elite throws orgies in Leeds and various other cities around the UK. They are usually held at nice homes and might have a sexy pool party or black tie event theme.
They also have masquerade balls, couples nights, singles nights, and parties for those only between the ages of 18 and 30. They also own a local sex toy store so you know things get kinky here.
Follow Passion Elite on:
Or you can email [email protected] and call them up at 01924 899085.
Hedonism
Hedonism parties are also held all over the United Kingdom. Swingers in your area have had a lot of fun at their group sex events for over 25 years.
This is a pretty private club, if you want to learn more you can call them at (+44) 020 8575 2052.
Bizarre Events
If you are interested in some of the wildest and most hardcore BDSM group sex parties then Bizarre Events might just be able to satisfy you. Their events are very LGBT friendly and include watersports parties for those who like pissing as well as other kinky themes.
They often have steel cages and all of the best BDSM equipment you could hope for. These kinky sex parties are held on Fridays and they have one or two a month usually.
Bizarre Events is active on both Facebook and Twitter plus they are available via this number 07722 587 951 or this email [email protected] .
Shushi Parties
Shushi Parties throw local couple swapping events in the United Kingdom for couples between the ages of 18 and 40 only. You can email them at [email protected] to learn more.
Ireland Swingers Clubs
The Love Nest
One of two swingers clubs in Ireland that we are going to discuss is The Love Nest in Dublin. Again we apologize about the technicality of being in the UK or not, there just aren’t enough Irish clubs to justify having their own page so we thought they fit better here.
The Love Nest hosts swingers parties in Dublin every Saturday night plus they also go to other cities from time to time. Couples must pay 95€ to enter, while single men are charged 100€ and also must sign up for a 3 month membership that costs 95€.
Single women are charged 35€. You can call Tom at 087 185 4488 or email [email protected] for more details.
I Kandi
Over in Limerick you can find the I Kandi local swingers club, our last option for swapping couples in Ireland. This club has multiple faces, on one side you get a nudist sauna and on the other a nightclub so everyone in the lifestyle can find someone that suits their needs.
I Kandi is open Wednesday through Saturdays starting at 7pm and Sundays at 4pm. All are welcome and this is a very LGBT friendly place to party.
No membership is necessary and the entry fee is 22 euros, though Saturday nights are for members and invited guests only. You can contact this UK nudist sauna and swingers club by calling 086 339 6630.
Meet Swinging Couples Near You Online
It isn’t like there are swingers clubs in all UK cities and we mostly just listed a bunch of roaming parties that might meet once or twice a month if you are lucky. Thankfully there is a good way for you to meet swapping couples online and our favorite site is 99 Flavors.
If you have never heard of this site before it is part of the Adult Friend Finder network which has over 30 million active members worldwide and a large chunk of those users are from this country. Those who sign up to meet swinging couples in the United Kingdom online on 99 Flavors also can use the entire AFF network.
That means you not only can contact all of the local swingers in your area, you also can message everyone that uses Adult Friend Finder as well. You can set up your own private sex parties, invite singles over for threesomes, find cuckolding wives near you for swinging play, set up BDSM meet ups or do whatever you feel like.
It is sort of like a one stop shop to satisfy your kinky desires and it can really take your bedroom experience to the next level.
Final Thoughts & Tips
Before we finish lets discuss a few things that can help you and all others in attendance have a better time. Before you visit any club be sure to:
- Visit the local swingers clubs website before you visit
- Contact them if you need to RSVP
- Take a shower and dress up, or dress to the sexy theme
- Be part of the party and mingle
- Don’t force yourself where you aren’t wanted
- No ALWAYS means no
It doesn’t take a genius to realize that we are mostly talking to single men who want to go to the United Kingdom swingers clubs. A girl walking around playing with every dick she sees is the star of the show but guys can’t behave like that.
We will try to keep this page as current as possible, if you need to let us know of any club closures or new libertine clubs around email us at clubs4swingers at gmail.com. If the whole local group sex club scene doesn’t sound right at this point you might have more fun setting up your own private orgies by using 99 Flavors, or just meet some kinky people on Adult Friend Finder for some 1 on 1 fun.
Now you know all about the best swingers clubs in the United Kingdom plus Ireland and how to meet kinky couples for swapping near you, we hope you have a great time!