Last updated on July 29th, 2019
Hey there, we just wanted to share some simple advice for anyone that is new to the swinging lifestyle. At the end of the day this all comes down to respect and treating others the way you wish to be treated.
It is always a good idea to RSVP, or at least check out the swingers clubs website or social media before you go. That way you can make sure they are open and see what type of themed event they will be having when you plan to go.
You don’t always have to dress to the theme, but it is never a bad idea to do so. Next, make sure that you wash up before you go and make yourself look presentable.
Nobody wants some sweaty and smelly balls in their face, so take a shower and put on some clean clothes. When you get to the club or party be social and introduce yourself to others.
This is particularly important for single men, a sexy lady can get by with just being there for the sex but with men it is a little different. But man or woman everyone will have a better time if they are part of the scene, not just hiding in the shadows looking for any easy chance to get laid that they can get.
It is very easy to have fun in this adult lifestyle, just remember that you are not in a brothel and that no means no. However the nicer and more sociable you are the less times you will be told no.