Last updated on January 10th, 2020
Listing the best swingers clubs in North Carolina and other ways to meet swapping couples near you isn’t as easy as it may sound. Discretion is a big part of the lifestyle, most people and clubs like to keep this on the down low.
Let’s say there is a couple where the guy enjoys watching his wife get cuckolded, that is probably not something they want their friends, family, neighbors and co-workers to know about. You can see why finding out good and up to date info on the best swingers clubs in North Carolina or other ways to meet kinky couples near you can be so difficult to track down.
That same discretion is also wanted by couples who enjoy having group sex be it a threesome or a massive orgy with hundreds of people partaking. Well, we are going to do our best to not only cover this topic at its current state, but also continue to update this page as often as we can.
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There are plenty of other sites out there that attempt to do the same, but if you have visited them you probably have noticed half of the clubs they mentioned are no longer open. We here at Clubs4Swingers aren’t going to say we will be perfect at this, but we will put in the effort to keep our lists relevant and up to date.
After we tell you all about the best clubs for swingers around the area we will also talk about other ways to meet sexually adventurous couples near you. That way you can throw your own private orgies, meet some of those cuckolding wives, or get your kicks however you desire.
Of course the easiest way to do this is by using online sites and groups, and we have some great ways to tell you all about. But before we get into that we want to list the best clubs in the area and give a little break down on what they have to offer.
Best Clubs For Swingers In North Carolina
Here is our list of best swingers clubs in North Carolina, we were expecting most to be in Charlotte or Raleigh but things are actually quite spread out:
- Carolina Friends in Charlotte & Greensboro
- Melting Pot in Charlotte
- Monkey Couples in Morganton
- Going Place at 4536-4 Technology Dr in Wilmington
- The House in Raleigh
- PDC Club in Winston-Salem
- You Know Where at 815 Shannon Drive in Fayetteville NC
- Deviant Events
- Platinum Playhouse in Mocksville
- Friction Carolina Adult Lifestyle Parties
We have also covered all you need to know about the adult lifestyle in surrounding states:
- South Carolina Swingers Clubs
- Georgia Swingers Clubs
- Tennessee Swingers Clubs
- Virginia Swingers Clubs
Now we want to share a little bit about each of these libertine clubs. As we mentioned before discretion is very important to clubs and also couples so we aren’t going to share any more than these places are already sharing themselves.
We have put links up to all of their own websites and social media, we definitely recommend you follow those links before you visit. You want to make sure you are dressed in the proper way for whatever kinky sexy party they are throwing on the night you plan to attend.
Plus these libertine clubs may be closed on a particular night, or have some sort of special event going on that you are not aware of.
Carolina Friends has been throwing adult lifestyle sex parties in Charlotte and Greensboro since 1991. They run big hotel and nightclub takeovers that are very popular.
You can sign up for a 1 month trial membership for only $12, or a full year membership will run you $90. If you need to email Carolina Friends the address is [email protected]
Melting Pot used to be in Hickory but has moved to Charlotte and is definitely one of the most popular swingers clubs in North Carolina. They also throw events in Greenville, South Carolina and have been hosting their lifestyle parties since 2004.
Over in Morganton you can find Monkey Couples which is mostly a venue only for couple swapping but certain single males may attend. You can email Monkey Couples club at [email protected] to find out more.
This byob swingers club in Wilmington hosts all kinds of cool theme parties like the Swingers Olympics, pantiless parties, toga parties, MILF nights and more. Going Place is mostly open on weekends and the prices can vary a bit but are usually around $40 for couples or single men and $10 for single ladies.
Send Going Place an email at [email protected] or you can reach them via phone here 910-622-3524. They limit the number of single men to 5 per night.
The only on site swingers club in Raleigh is The House. It is open every Saturday from 12pm to 2am and is also byob. Before 6pm couples pay $20 and single females pay $10, while the night parties will run couples $40 and ladies $15.
If you have the stamina to go all day and night then it is $50 and $25 respectively. No single men are allowed to enter this libertine club, you can message The House in Raleigh via email [email protected] .
PDC Club runs hotel takeovers at The Quality Inn Coliseum at 531 Akron Drive currently. Couples are charged $50, single women $25, and no single men are allowed.
They throw their North Carolina adult lifestyle parties about once a month and they are always byob. Call PDC Club at 336-767-8240 or email them at [email protected] to make a reservation or get more info.
You Know Where
Out in Fayetteville you will find the You Know Where Libertine Club which is massive at over 12,000 square feet. They have a big dungeon room, disco room, castle room and black light areas.
Their lifestyle parties are on Saturdays from 9pm to 3am, or the 1st and 4th Friday of each month starting at 9pm also. The 4th Friday parties are some of the best BDSM sex parties in North Carolina.
There is a $10 yearly membership fee, the entry fee is $40 for couples, $5 for single ladies and $30 for single men if they are referred by a current member. This is another byob club which you can follow on Facebook, call via 919-247–0548, or email You Know Where NC via [email protected] .
Deviant Events is a very hush hush lifestyle club and we want to respect their wishes. They are for single females and swapping couples only, and you must apply online via this form to get into this North Carolina’s Deviant Events swingers club.
In Mocksville you will find the Platinum Playhouse libertine club. It is also byob, the prices for entry are $50 for couples and $20 for single women, no single men are allowed.
Their email is [email protected]
Friction Carolina Swingers Parties
Last but not least comes the Friction Carolina swingers parties. They are actually run by a company that throws adult lifestyle orgies all around the country. Send Friction Carolina an email to learn more about the parties near you [email protected]
Meet Swinging Couples Near You Online
We know that there are plenty of swinging couples in North Carolina who aren’t really interested in going to any group sex clubs. Big orgies and lots of people watching you are certainly not for everyone.
Luckily there is another way and that is to meet swingers near you online. This may mean other swinging couples, or you contacting whatever amount of men and women you desire to party with and setting up something a little more private on your own.
Maybe you want to invite other swinging couples to your home, or throw some private group sex parties at hotels in the area. Or maybe you are a single guy who just wants to work his way in be it to an orgy, a BDSM party, or just tracking down some cuckolding wives in North Carolina online.
How can you do that? Have you ever heard of Adult Friend Finder? You have probably seen the links around the internet before, they like to say they are not your typical dating site and that is definitely true!
Instead it is all about hooking up and finding other people near you who want to explore sexually. They have a sister site set up specifically for swingers called 99 Flavors which might just be exactly what you are looking for.
There is no better way to meet swingers in North Carolina online be it swapping couples, singles, a cuckolding wife or whatever suits your fancy. You not only get access to the swingers on 99 Flavors but you get access to the full Adult Friend Finder network which has tens of millions of users worldwide.
In a heavily populated area like this one there will be plenty of options on it and it will really take your group sex game to the next level. For the single men out there that don’t want to get rejected at the door these sites are definitely the best way for you to find some kinky women to bring with you next time you want to go.
Final Thoughts & Tips
Before this ends we wanted to share a quick word of advice for any newbies out there, or anyone who has tried visiting swingers clubs in the past with mixed results. There are some pretty easy rules to follow that will definitely maximize your experience as well as all of the other kinky couples involved.
The first thing you should do is check and see if you need to RSVP before you go to the club. Next take a shower and try to look your best. Often times these clubs will have theme nights, try to dress according to the theme when possible. You don’t want to be the guy who isn’t ready for BDSM night now do you?
Once inside the club don’t be ‘that guy’ and many of you already know who we are talking about. When it comes to swingers clubs ‘that guy’ can come in many forms, but they are all pretty similar.
The guy who stands in the corner creeping in the shadows not talking to anyone else. The guy who watches other couples and doesn’t get the hint that they want him to leave them alone.
The guy who walks up and tries to jump into other couples playing and attempts to force his way in even when it is clear he isn’t welcome. Swingers clubs in North Carolina are not looking for single men who are anti-social and who are just visiting because they think it is a good place to bust a quick nut.
Mingle, be a part of the lifestyle, and make sure you are wanted before you start to get involved. You should also read the club rules just to make sure what is and isn’t allowed so that you don’t get kicked out for doing something you didn’t realize was wrong.
We will try to keep this page as up to date as we can, if you need to let us know of any club closures or new clubs around email us at clubs4swingers at gmail.com. If the whole group sex club scene doesn’t sound right at this point you might have more fun setting up your own private orgies by using 99 Flavors, or just meet some kinky people near you on Adult Friend Finder for some 1 on 1 fun.
Now you know all about the best swingers clubs in North Carolina and how to meet kinky couples for swapping near you, we hope you have a great time!