Last updated on January 10th, 2020
This post will break down the best swingers clubs in New York plus tell you another way to meet sexy swapping couples near you. This is not a well-publicized lifestyle as you probably already know, but we have some good info to share with you today.
For those that want to meet swinging couples in New York the clubs are definitely one of your best options. Lots of like minded and sexually adventurous people gather to have a good time be it in a big orgy or just a cuckolding wife whose husband wants to watch her get railed.
Table of Contents
Our first section will list the best clubs for swingers starting with New York City clubs first. Then we will share the info we have on each place. Some clubs are more willing to share what they have to offer than others, and we are definitely going to respect that.
Once you know about the adult venues you can visit we will talk about how to meet swinging couples online near you. Not everyone who enjoys group sex wants to do so at a libertine club environment.
Finally there will be some closing thoughts, mostly just some advice and guidelines to follow so that you and everyone else can have a great time together.
Best Clubs For Swingers In New York
We might as well share the names and locations of these adult lifestyle clubs with New York City clubs being listed first:
- Lethal Seduction Swingers Club in Brooklyn
- Bowery Bliss at 158 Bowery in Little Italy
- Checkmate NYC at 227 E 56th St
- Pendulum NYC
- Subspace Swingers Sunday in Midtown Manhattan
- Club Labyrinth
- Club Encounters at 45 Kean Street West Babylon
- Caligula NY at 40-19 20th Ave in Astoria
- Badd Kitty Club at 3491 W Main St in Fredonia
We have also listed all of the swingers clubs in Toronto as well as the surrounding states like:
- Meet Swingers Couples In New Jersey
- Meet Swingers Couples In Pennsylvania
- Meet Swingers Couples In Connecticut
- Meet Swingers Couples In Massachusetts
As we will mention again later it would be very wise to visit their website before you attend. Make sure they are open, and see what type of kinky theme they have for the evening.
How awkward would it be to show up in your sexy schoolgirl outfit for a BDSM party instead of black leather? What a shame!
Lethal Seduction Swingers Club
Located in Brooklyn Lethal Seductions Swingers Club is where you can find some of the best private adult lifestyle parties in the city. You can follow Lethal Seduction on social media, text them at 347-725-9385, or send them an email here [email protected] for more info.
A great NYC libertine club located in Little Italy, you will need to pay a $20 one time membership to enter this club. Bowery Bliss is open Tuesday from 8pm to 2am, Wednesday and Thursday from 9pm to 3am, and on Friday and Saturday they open at 10pm and run late into the night.
The price for entry on Tuesday and Thursday is $60 for couples, $20 for single ladies and $120 for single men. On Wednesday and Friday couples are $100 and single women $20, Saturday it is $120 for couples. Single men are only allowed on Tuesday and Thursdays.
This NYC swingers club recently upgraded and now they have over 5,000 square feet. They added a few new play rooms including a really nice fetish room.
Sorry single men, you are not allowed to enter this NYC libertine club. Checkmate is only open on Friday and Saturday nights from 9pm to 4am.
Couples must pay $110 to enter and single ladies are free. NYC Checkmate has a nice main lounge to meet, 3 small private rooms and one big play room for their orgies. Their email address is [email protected] and their phone number is 212-421-3313.
Located in Long Island City close to 25th St and 50th Ave you can find Pendulum NYC. They are open on Thursday from 9pm to 2am when the prices are $50 for couples, $20 for women and $80 for single men.
On Friday and Saturday they are open from 10pm to 4am, couples pay $60 on weekends while single ladies pay $20 and men pay $120. This can be a great place to have sex with transgenders in New York City, particularly when they throw their Bi Bash Shebang parties.
Pendulum NYC libertine club also has other cool events like Curvy Fling to sleep with BBW, plus Leather and Lace parties to take advantage of their good BDSM equipment. You can call them at 917-521-6565 or send them an email at [email protected]
Subspace Swingers might just be the best swingers club in Midtown Manhattan. They are open Wednesday and Thursday from 9pm to 2am and weekend nights they close at 3am.
If you arrive before 10pm you will get a small discount. Prices vary by which theme or group sex party they are throwing, but they are a little more expensive on weekends than weekdays.
Manhattan’s Subspace Swingers are available via emailing [email protected] or texting 646-389-5220.
Club Labyrinth throws all sorts of cool adult lifestyle parties in New York like Cock and Bull parties, Orgy Thursdays, GGG parties, and much more. Single men will need to submit a picture before their first visit.
Just like the last club we mentioned prices vary widely by event but weekdays are a bit cheaper and you always get a $20 discount if you arrive before 10pm. For single ladies that early bird discount ends at midnight.
To find out more about their next couple swapping events you can email Club Labyrinth at [email protected] or call 646-868-2100.
Located in West Babylon Club Encounters is open Thursdays from 7pm to 1am plus Friday and Saturday nights from 9:30pm to 4am.
Single men pay $40 on Thursday or $60 on weekends, while couples are free on Thursdays and pay $30 on weekends. Contact Club Encounters by emailing [email protected] or calling 631-920-6544.
For those who want to do some couple swapping in Astoria Caligula is the place to be. They are open from 10pm to 4am on Friday and Saturdays but no single men are allowed on Saturdays.
Their phone number is 516-301-7800 and Caligula can be massed via email at [email protected]
Badd Kitty Club
The last New York swingers club we want to discuss is the Badd Kitty Club located in Fredonia. They feature a large 15 person hot tub and romantic candle lit couples play areas.
Meet Swinging Couples Near You Online
While the clubs are a good place to look they are not your only option and you can definitely find swinging couples in New York online to party and swap with. Our favorite site for this is 99 Flavors which is part of the massive Adult Friend Finder network.
You have heard of AFF before right? Surely you have seen their logo on various sites around the internet but did you know that they have over 30 million members worldwide?
Most of those members come from a few main areas of the world including America, Canada, Europe and Australia. We aren’t going to guarantee you that if you sign up you will see all your neighbors on it, but in a super crowded place like New York City and the whole Northeast region you will have plenty of options.
Maybe you want to set up your own massive orgy, throw a smaller group sex party, find couples for threesomes or cuckold wives to hook up with. Maybe you want to get a little bi curious or delve into BDSM, well Adult Friend Finder is great for all of the above and if you sign up for 99 Flavors to meet swingers in New York online you will have full access to the entire network.
We should also point out that many group sex clubs won’t allow single men to enter, at least on certain nights. If you don’t want to get stopped by the doorman meet a kinky girl near you online, show up together, and she will be your ticket in to the libertine party.
Random Thoughts & Tips
We have some final quick thoughts to share to help improve your sexual experience as well as all of the other people you are going to swing with. They would be:
- Visit the swingers clubs website or social media before you go
- Make sure they are open when you plan to attend
- For single men, make sure they are allowed when you want to attend
- RSVP if you can, clubs can get better ratios if they have some idea
- Find out if there is any sort of theme for the time you will go
- Shower and dress for the theme or dress sexy
- Mingle and be part of the group, not hiding in the shadows
- No means no
- Respect others wishes
Those last few are really only for single men, nobody is going to complain if some hot girl is creeping around not talking to anyone but letting all comers bang her whenever they please. But for guys it is a different story and why so many libertine clubs won’t allow single men to enter.
If you show up looking good and know how to behave it won’t be a problem. On the other hand it doesn’t take much for you to spoil the party, and if so don’t expect to be invited back or you could possibly even get kicked out on the spot.
We will do our best to keep this page as up to date as we can, if you need to let us know of any club closures or new clubs around email us at clubs4swingers at gmail.com. Now you know about all of the best swingers clubs in New York plus how to meet kinky couples for swapping near you on 99 Flavors so you are ready to make this happen.