Last updated on August 1st, 2020
Today we are going to tell you all about the best swingers clubs in New Mexico plus other ways to meet couples for wife swapping near you around the state and region. As most already know finding out good and reliable info about this adult lifestyle can be difficult at times. Particularly when there are only two clubs being The Clubhouse in Albuquerque and NM Wonderland.
Let’s face it, swingers clubs in New Mexico (or anywhere) and the people in the lifestyle value their discretion greatly. Most cuckolding or swapping couples would like to keep what happens behind doors private for obvious reasons.
Table of Contents
While we are going to give you the best and most up to date information on these libertine clubs we are only going to mention things that are available online. If these clubs don’t want to share it then who are we to do it?
The first section will be all about The Clubhouse swingers club in Albuquerque, then we will give a quick write up on what you might expect at one of their group sex parties. NM Wonderland will come next, and after that we will talk about meeting couples for swapping in New Mexico online which will be easier in big cities like Albuquerque or Santa Fe but you can find them spread out all over the state and the Southwest.
Finally we will share some closing thoughts on how to behave if you are new to the orgy lifestyle.
The Clubhouse Swingers Club In Albuquerque
In most of our posts we have a lengthy list of all the best swingers clubs a state has to offer, well here we can’t really do that. One of the few legit adult lifestyle clubs in New Mexico that we know of is The Clubhouse in Albuquerque at 3800 C Hawkins St NE.
This is a members club and memberships will run you $100 per year, though single ladies pay $50 for a membership. Entry fees are $40 for member couples or $60 for non-member couples.
Single ladies pay $5 if members or $25 if not, and single men must pay $60 and RSVP ahead of time by calling 505-750-3977 or emailing [email protected] so that this adult lifestyle club can have a nice ratio of swapping couples, men and women.
There doesn’t appear to be a set schedule for their orgies but they are pretty frequent. They offer a nice nightclub with a stripper pole, a dungeon, and this is a great place for New Mexico couples looking for BDSM group sex.
They even offer classes on how to use floggers and other types of BDSM equipment.
NM Wonderland in Northeast Albuquerque is generally open in the evenings Tuesday through Saturday, plus they have daytime orgies on Wednesday’s and a ladies only brunch on Sundays. Opening hours are usually 9pm and you can stop by to get a tour of the swingers club from 7-9 if you like.
You must RSVP here and be a member to partake in one of their orgies. It is also a BYOB club and no one can enter after 11pm.
Memberships are pretty cheap at $20 per month or $60 per year. Entry fees are also very affordable ranging from $5-$20 most nights with some special parties going up to $40.
If you don’t want to sign up to be a member yet you can visit on Tuesday or Wednesday nights from 7pm to 10pm for their mix and mingle events. We suggest you check out the NM Wonderland website to get a better feel for what they have to offer before you show up.
Since we have only listed a couple of options here we want to mention that we have also written about clubs for group sex in:
Meet Swinging Couples Near You Online
Some people may want to enjoy swinging without going to an adult lifestyle club, particularly when The Clubhouse and NM Wonderland in Albuquerque are your only options. Others might enjoy going to the clubs but also wish they had other ways to meet swapping couples in New Mexico, well the internet is the best way to do that.
Our favorite site would be 99 Flavors, if you have never heard of them before they are just a sister site of Adult Friend Finder which has tens of millions of active members across the globe. Luckily enough AFF is mostly used in a few regions of the world like North America, Europe, and Australia.
Those are also the same regions where libertine clubs and the swinging lifestyle are also popular, isn’t it just great when things actually work out? When you sign up to meet swinging couples near you on 99 Flavors you also get to access the entire Adult Friend Finder network.
That means you can contact all of the swapping couples in your area whenever you want. That way you can set up your own private sex parties, invite singles over for threesomes, or find cuckolding wives for your couple play.
It is sort of like a one stop shop for all sorts of kinky and sexy play and can really take your bedroom experience to the next level. In smaller towns we doubt there are many members, but they have a good refund policy so you might as well see what they have to offer.
Most of the couples to swap with in the state using the site are in Albuquerque or Santa Fe.
Final Thoughts & Tips
We are almost done but there are still a few simple rules to help you and all others in the adult lifestyle have a great time together:
- Visit the swingers clubs website before you visit
- Contact them if you need to RSVP
- Take a shower and dress up, or dress to the sexy theme
- Be part of the party and mingle
- Don’t force yourself where you aren’t wanted
- No ALWAYS means no
As you can tell many of those rules are more geared towards single men who want to try and visit a New Mexico swingers club. A guy walking around trying to stick his dick wherever he can is going to get kicked out pretty quick.
On the other hand a girl walking around letting everyone motorboat her is the life of the party. It is pretty simple guys, don’t be an asshole.
You will have a much better time in the lifestyle if you are actually in the lifestyle, not off in your own world waiting to pounce. We will try to keep this page as up to date as we can, if you need to let us know of any club closures or new libertine clubs around email us at clubs4swingers at gmail.com.
If the whole group sex club scene doesn’t sound right at this point you might have more fun setting up your own private orgies by using 99 Flavors, or just meet some kinky people near you on Adult Friend Finder for some 1 on 1 fun.
Now you know all about The Clubhouse swingers club in Albuquerque and NM Wonderland plus how to meet kinky couples for swapping in New Mexico, we hope you have a great time!